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Nancy

We Can't Be Erased

Nancy

WNYC Studios

Gay, Documentary, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Lgtbq, Lesbian, Relationships, Asian, Politics, Conversations, Storytelling, Health & Fitness, Homosexuality

4.83K Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2018

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

It's been a tough week of news, and we asked our trans and gender non-conforming listeners: What do you want cisgender people to know?

If you, or someone you know, are looking for resources (or for organizations to donate to), consider these ones:

Trans LifelineTransgender Law CenterNational Center for Transgender EqualityLambda LegalThe Trevor Project

Episode artwork by Kiernan Sjursen-Lien. You can find them on Twitter, Tumblr, and Instagram.

Episode scoring by Jeremy Bloom. Theme by Alexander Overington.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, Nancy Listeners, it's Kathy and Tobin.

0:02.4

We're jumping into your podcast feeds because man, it has been a week.

0:06.8

Yes, yes it has. So if you hadn't heard, there's been a lot of news about the Trump

0:11.9

administration's stance on trans rights in the US. The New York Times reported on a memo

0:16.9

from the Department of Health and Human Services saying that a person's gender should be determined

0:21.6

by genitalia at birth. Basically says the government shouldn't recognize the legal existence of

0:26.8

trans and gender nonconforming people. There's also been news that the Justice Department doesn't

0:31.5

think federal law protects trans workers against discrimination. So understandably, a lot of you

0:37.5

had feelings. I know caffeine, I were just sort of sad and angry all week. And we heard from a lot

0:44.0

of you that you were also frustrated and scared, especially our trans and gender nonconforming Nancy

0:49.6

family. So we decided to ask for voicemails from all of you, telling us what you were feeling and what

0:55.6

you wish cisgender people would be aware of in this moment. We'll be back with a whole new

1:00.4

episode on Monday about the battle over trans rights and Massachusetts. But for now, here's some

1:05.4

of the messages we received. Hi, Tobin, Kathy and all the folks at Nancy, I've never seen an

1:11.8

voice memo before. So I hope I'm doing this right. I am a 41 year old gender fluid person.

1:19.6

My name is Jay and I'm a trans masculine nonbinary person three months on T.

1:24.4

Hi, my name is Jonah and I think I just might be a trans guy. I want cis people to know that when I

1:29.7

read the news, I cried before bed wondering how I could possibly tell my parents what I've been

1:35.6

going through. I want cis people to know that I'm out to everyone at school, at work, my friends,

1:42.4

my boyfriend, everyone, except for my family. I talked to my parents a few days ago and my

1:48.9

voice is starting to sound different because it's changing on T and they finally noticed. They

1:54.0

asked me if I have a cold and I lied and said yes. It hurts that I feel like I can't tell them the truth.

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