If I have hopes and dreams for my child, children, I have more than one.

Children, it would be that they could have our job because it's so fun.

That they have the confidence enough to be okay with wherever they may land and whoever they may be and how whatever that path looks like and that

they can support themselves.

Drop it like a hat.

Drop like a tie.

Natalie, what do I do?

It opens giddy-getty.

It's Tuesday and it's the first Tuesday, the first day that Kat has been without her children.

And yeah, the summer is really hard.

And moms do a lot.

And I'm going to generalize.

Okay.

I'm going to generalize.

Generalize for me.

Because I was also just talking about how someone was saying recently I was having a conversation

with a couple and I said to the man I said you should try and get a job closer to your home if you

could and then he goes well then I wouldn't have my drive hour and back to freaking think about my thoughts and debrief. And I was like, I hear that. And then I said to the man, I said, sorry, I'm not going to be sexist, but I have to say this thing that I heard and that I know is true, that they say that when a man comes home from work, he'll often sit in his car just to like take a minute and think before he gets out and anywhere a mom goes she isn't

such a fracking frenzy to get out of her car when she gets home to get back into the house to be

with the kids i sometimes take a minute but they open the door and find me yes they definitely see me

coming and you're also more of a seasoned mom but in the beginning oh my god it was it was a firestorm

so i was thinking that's so funny and i was was like, you know, in general, moms do a lot more of the planning for back to school and for camp and for summers and all of that. I know this isn't what you would want, but to like men ever think like, you know, I should send you away for the weekend to a spa to just like just to like relax because I want to thank you.

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