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Keep the Heart

We Are Not Called to Be Argumentative

Keep the Heart

Francie Taylor

Religion & Spirituality:christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9632 Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2022

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

The man in the sky club who asked me what I did for a living was so excited it was suspicious. I thought that maybe he wanted to hear more about the Bible. It turned out that he wanted a debate. I’m not into debates. I’d rather engage with a willing participant in a respectful dialogue than get into a lengthy dispute with someone who feels like they’ve finally found their sparring partner for the day. And when it’s a complete stranger, I really can’t inspire myself to quarrel. Why argue with someone I don’t know when I could do that with people I do know? Haha! But seriously, this was a gospel opportunity, as long as I didn’t mess it up by becoming argumentative. People are so confrontational today, and they feel emboldened because it’s popular to be against things that are good and for things that are destructive. It didn’t take long for this stranger to identify himself as a proud unbeliever, which made me politely and carefully respond to him while gradually ending the conversation. I concluded with a string of Bible verses quoted from memory. His face changed as I quoted Scripture, and I knew that the Bible was doing what I could not do. There is a spirit in every human, and while it can’t be reached by arguments, it can be penetrated by the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. There are reasons why unbelievers don’t understand believers, and we make the division worse when we get into arguments just to score points. Let’s consider just a few reasons why there is this communication gap, considering our own roles and making sure that we’re not becoming repellant or annoyingly self-assertive.  Lead a Bible study this summer with ICU Heart Conditions Teachers of Good Things Pink & Brown Compact KJV Bible Rose Gold Personal Size KJV Bible FOLLOW Keep the Heart on Instagram LIKE Keep the Heart on Facebook To Support This Podcast CLICK HERE!

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The man in the Sky Club who asked me what I did for a living was so excited, it was suspicious.

0:06.0

I told him I was a Bible application teacher, and I thought that maybe he wanted to hear more

0:10.6

about the Bible because his response seemed so energetic. It turned out that he really wanted

0:16.6

a debate. I'm not into debates. They're too much waste of good energy. I'd rather engage with a

0:23.1

willing listener than get into a lengthy dispute with someone who feels like they finally found

0:27.4

their sparring partner for the day. And when it's a complete stranger, I really can't inspire

0:32.9

myself to quarrel. Why argue with someone I don't know when I have plenty of people I do know who I could

0:39.1

tussle with? But seriously, this was a gospel opportunity as long as I didn't mess it up by becoming

0:47.4

argumentative. Being argumentative is not a calling.

0:54.8

Thank you for joining Keep the Heart for today's podcast with Francie Taylor.

0:59.6

Francie is an author, conference speaker, and teacher.

1:03.1

She is passionate about teaching what to do with what we learn from God's Word.

1:09.0

Now back to today's valuable study.

1:15.1

People are so confrontational today, and they feel even more emboldened because it's popular to be against things that are good and in favor of things that are destructive.

1:26.1

It didn't take long for this stranger to identify himself as a proud

1:30.4

unbeliever, which made me politely respond to him while gradually ending the conversation.

1:36.9

He even said something like this, I'm about to blow your mind with what I'm going to tell you.

1:43.4

And I said, oh, I don't know if you're going to be

1:45.6

able to do that. I've heard an awful lot in my life. What most unbelievers don't remember or realize

1:52.3

is that everyone starts as a sinner. There is none righteous, no not one. And all of sinned and

1:59.0

come short of the glory of God. So this unbeliever wasn't talking to

2:02.5

someone who was born, saved. There's no such thing. He also wasn't talking to someone who had some

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