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The Daily Dad

We All Need to Hear This

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Dads, Society & Culture, Education, Parenting, Wisdom, Ryan Holiday, Kids & Family, Relationships, Fatherhood, Self-improvement

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2020

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

Ryan further discusses the letters that author F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote to his daughter, and what they say about him and his character as a parent, on today's Daily Dad Podcast.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your

0:14.1

most important job being a dad. These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical

0:20.3

wisdom, and insights from dads all over the world.

0:24.5

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:33.1

We all need to hear this.

0:35.9

As we've been discussing, F. Scott Fitzgerald was a master of the fatherly letter.

0:41.3

He would finish the short letter to his daughter, Francis, and you can listen to our other episodes about this if you miss them, with a short list of things to think about.

0:49.5

Things to think about. He said, what am I really aiming at? How good am I really in comparison to my

0:55.4

contemporaries in regards to scholarship? Do I really understand about people and am I able to get along

1:02.7

with them? Am I trying to make my body a useful instrument or am I neglecting it? And then he concludes

1:08.6

with dearest love, and he signs his name, neither he

1:12.2

nor she would know that he had only a few years left to live, and that he would barely see his

1:17.3

daughter make it to adulthood. And considering she was only 11 years old at the time you wrote

1:22.3

this letter, it makes you wonder if he wasn't really writing to her at all, but to himself, a man who,

1:27.1

by 1933, was a world

1:29.4

famous author yet racked by self-created financial issues, alcoholism, chronic procrastination,

1:36.1

and escapism. Our kids need to understand that they have gifts, that life itself is a gift.

1:41.8

Are they treating that gift well? Fitzgerald wasn't. They need to understand

1:45.9

that as wonderful as life is, it's also filled with complicated, flawed, even broken people. Can we

1:51.6

forgive them? Can we put up with them? Can we appreciate them? And finally, we need to understand that

1:57.2

wisdom is the journey we all have to be on because it helps us with those things.

2:03.1

And we could all use a little reminder of that today, no matter how old we are.

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