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Washing Your Hands Before Unloading The Dishwasher

The Mail-In Podcast

The Mail-In

Education, How To

4.91.4K Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2026

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Back on ⁠The Mail-In⁠ this week with ⁠⁠Sally deFries⁠ and Will deFries. Here's what we've got: This week, Sally is joined by Will (filling in for Brett who is on a ski trip) to talk a listener with intimacy issues, saving money while also enjoying your life, washing your hands before emptying the dishwasher, a new parent grabbag, lacking empathy because of your job, handling conflict, choosing where a couple should get married, and more. Our Partners: - Lola Blankets: www.lolablankets.com (MAILIN for 40% off)  - Warby Parker: www.warbyparker.com/mail (15% off when you buy 2 pairs of glasses) - Green Chef: www.greenchef.com/mailgraza (50% off Green Chef + FREE Graza Olive Oil Set in your 2nd and 3rd boxes) ⁠WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN⁠ LEAVE A VOICEMAIL 888-362-6245 ⁠FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM⁠ ⁠FOLLOW US ON TWITTER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the mail-in.

0:10.0

Hello and welcome back to the mail-in.

0:23.9

I'm your host host, not even co-host today, Sally DeFries, and I'm in studio with none other than my husband Will.

0:33.9

Welcome to the show, Will.

0:35.3

Hello, thank you for having me.

0:39.4

I'm doing my best to impersonate brett uh while he is out on a ski trip uh okay first of all i've never sat in this chair of the studio before

0:46.3

and it's throwing me off but also normally i sit like really close to brett so we can have a little bit more

0:52.3

rapport and it feels like you're far away yeah i do i do, I do a little further in the studio. You're like, I like creating a buffer. Okay. I just think it's like when Barrett and I record retail therapy, I think it's kind of weird just to be sitting like need to knee in the studio if we don't have to. But we're a husband and wife. I know. But I still just think like it's nice to spread out

1:11.9

and hang. Okay. Okay. Well, I did, I did suggest that you and I both sit on the love seat

1:19.6

together and I was informed that that would not look good on the YouTube. Yeah, I don't want to,

1:24.2

I didn't want to do that. It is, well, and it would be significant head turning, I think, because we'd have to, like, it would be hard to probably hear each other. I saw a interview with Andy Cohen the other day, and he said that whenever he and John Mayer go out to eat, they sit on the same side of the booth together. Really? Yeah. That's so lovely. I'm thinking about sitting on the same side of the

1:44.3

booth with my boys from henceforth. You won't even sit on the same side of the booth as me.

1:49.1

I mean, I don't want you to, but... You're not one of my boys. You're my wife. You don't think

1:54.9

that that's a little weird. Randy, would you sit on the same side of the booth as me at lunch if I

1:59.1

took you to Kelly's? Absolutely not. Okay. Okay. That's great. Just a couple. Well, I'm going to just preface one thing here. If you're watching on YouTube, I got some aesthetic work done today. So I have a couple little marks on my face, maybe a little swollen, maybe bruising. We don't know for sure with our boy

2:18.3

Caleb over at Skin Spirit. He's been on retail therapy before. The people love Caleb. Shouts to

2:23.8

Caleb. Also, going to do a quick intro, unless you want to banter somewhere. I mean, I don't know.

2:31.7

How's your day been? Fine. Just, I don't know. How's your day been? Fine.

2:35.8

Just, I don't know.

2:37.6

I came into the studio today and just wanted to do content.

2:42.0

We had an interesting night, unfortunately, as parents.

2:44.6

Not that.

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