Was My Pickup Attempt A Failure & Her Friend Was Saving Her From Me?

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 8 April 2026

⏱️ 8 minutes

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's
0:05.8	newsletter is going to be was my pickup attempt of failure and her friend was saving her from me.
0:12.5	Well I got an email from a dude he was in a bar I guess I assume some kind of venue he's having
0:18.3	a couple drinks and he's chatting a girl up some laughs and
0:22.0	strong eye contact he thinks he's making progress and then all of a sudden this drunk dude butts in
0:27.5	with his wife in tow takes over the conversation i guess it turns out it's this guy's this woman's
0:33.7	neighbor and he's drunk and so he keeps repeating himself we've all been there with
0:38.6	friends like oh you're man they just keep repeating the same thing every couple of minutes in this case
0:43.0	he's talking about doing work for and i was going to do a good job and this and that kind of
0:46.5	overselling himself and so eventually you know the guy just basically butts in and takes over the
0:51.9	conversation and he wasn't too happy about it.
1:00.4	But as soon as the guy started tapering off and not taking over, then he tried to re-engage with this girl.
1:05.2	But by this point, she kept looking over at her friend and kind of looking away.
1:09.8	You just see that it seems like the body language had shifted and she was just trying to get away. And so when I read this, I wonder if the neighbor and his wife stepped in because she was like, oh, who's this guy? He's a bad pickup artist. Get him away from me. I don't like him. Maybe she was being nice. He didn't pick up on it. I don't know. But it seems like the conversation was going well. But if he was sitting there with an angry, pissed off look on his face,
1:28.0	while this guy ran it for a half hour, 20 minutes, 10 minutes, however long it was,
1:33.2	the vibe was definitely different when he stopped talking and then this guy tried to re-engage.
1:39.3	So let's go through his email because at some point you're going to have things like this happen,
1:46.0	especially if you're going out and you're in the bars or the nightclubs or parties with drunk people or whatever.
1:51.2	This shit's going to happen.
1:52.5	So you've got to have a good attitude about it and not be so humorous.
1:56.5	And especially if it seems like she's not really interested and if she's not as enthusiastic to talk to you, you can just say, hey, it was great chat with you girls. Hey, come by and catch up with me later before you leave. I'm going to get back to my friends. You know, in this case, if this guy's that obnoxious and taken over and she's, you know, he's doing this, I would say, I just put my hand out. I'll excuse you for a second. He's a second it's like hey it's great chat with you i got to get back to my friends but you know come see me before you before you guys take off and like hey nice meeting you you know good luck with your home repairs whatever you guys going to do you know i'll talk to you later and then go and hang out with your friends and if she really, she'll come over and talk to you. If she was just hoping you went away, then she just will walk out and leave and you'll never see her again. So it's not a big deal. So you want to be totally indifferent. These things are going to happen. So you always want to have a better, more playful comeback. and you know know, again, if some drunk, obnoxious dude comes in and takes over and it's her neighbor, you can't say, hey, buddy, I was making progress here. Get the fuck out of here. What are you doing? I'm trying to get my dick wet tonight. What are you doing? You're cock blocking me. You're not going to, you know, obviously come out and say shit like that but you know if a guy takes
3:08.6	it over and he's being obnoxious and she's willing to entertain this then i would use an excuse
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