I've been thinking a lot about success and happiness lately, like, what is it?

How do we achieve it? And I found this quote by Del Carnegie where he says, success is getting what

you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. A lot of us are really good at going after what we want.

But are you really good at wanting what you get? Are you good at wanting what you have?

Because I believe that's where true joy and fulfillment lies. And that's what we're talking

about in today's episode. So let's dive in. Welcome to the School of Self-Image where personal

development meets style. Here's your hostess, master life coach, Tanya Lee. Hello, my gorgeous friends.

If you're listening to this the day it's released, it means you're listening to this the day before

Thanksgiving. I am at my dear friend Brooks's house. Her family, my family, friends, we're all

getting together. We're having like a friend's giving. And it's one of my favorite holidays.

I'm not sure what it is about Thanksgiving that I love so much. Maybe it's the turkey, but I don't

think that's it. Maybe it's the crisp air, the apple pie, the sweaters, the transition into winter,

but I just enjoy this day where we sit around, we feast, we watch football, and we give gratitude

for our lives and the people in our lives and the things in our lives. And while I would love to

see gratitude be a lifestyle for all of us, not something that we wait until once a year to express,

I do love having that day to remind us to stop and think about everything that we have

and how much we appreciate it. And so today I want to dedicate this episode to a concept that's

really helped me to have more joy in my life. And that concept is wanting what you have.

And Cheryl Crowe sang, soak up the song, she sings, it's not having what you want, it's wanting what

you've got. And I will tell you all the more I have actively wanted what I already have, the happier

I've become. One of the common questions that I get is how do you reconcile wanting more,

having all of these big goals and being satisfied with what you have? As if you have to choose

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