Hi, I'm Ronan Farther, my ex-mits and this is Ascension Presents.

I think sometimes when it comes to people, we can have a tendency to treat people like

we treat our cars.

Here's what I mean.

When you find something wrong with your car, the good thing to do is try to fix it, right?

Yeah, but if you can't fix it, what do we do?

We say, well, I can't fix this car, so I'm going to replace it.

I'll get a new one.

I'll take the broken car and replace it for a new car that isn't broken.

If we can't replace it, because whatever reason we don't have enough money, we don't have

enough resources, we will ignore the problem.

And that's probably the right thing to do with it.

I'm just going to ignore this car.

The great thing is that works when it comes to cars.

The bad thing is that's not a great idea when it comes to people.

I see this happen a lot in married relationships, where here's one member of the couple and they

see something in the other person that just they don't like.

And so what they try to do is they just try to get in there and they just listen, just

let me fix you.

Just let me kind of get them work my way in.

I know exactly what you need.

I want to fix you.

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