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🗓️ 21 October 2024
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When we avoid feeling awkward, we often miss an opportunity for growth, says workplace performance expert Henna Pryor. She shares tips on embracing discomfort for the sake of self-betterment and shows how pushing past the "cringe chasm" — the gap between how we perceive ourselves and how others see us — can open up chances to get ahead at work and in life. After the talk, Modupe shares wisdom on how to get over the fear of being cringe.
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0:00.0 | Ted Audio Collective |
0:05.0 | collective. |
0:06.0 | I can't tell you the number of times |
0:10.0 | I've been mistaken for another black woman in my own workplace and I've been here for 15 years. |
0:17.0 | It's a lot of times. |
0:19.0 | So many times that I always assumed I would never make that mistake myself with colleagues or |
0:24.6 | students confusing them with each other on the basis of ethnicity. But lo and |
0:29.6 | behold I must admit that I have and in those moments those cringe worthy moments I |
0:36.7 | decided not to just sweep it out of the rug but to call out what happened. I |
0:41.6 | didn't want the burden to be on the students |
0:44.5 | to have to either suffer in silence or correct me. |
0:47.4 | This way we could just acknowledge it and move on. |
0:50.6 | It was awkward for sure, but feeling awkward isn't the end of the world, is it? |
1:00.0 | I'm Madupakinola. This is Ted Business from the Ted Audio Collective. |
1:05.0 | Our speaker today is Henna Pryor. |
1:07.0 | She's a workplace performance expert who believes that creating better workplaces |
1:12.0 | means we all have to learn to push past the |
1:15.4 | cringe chasm that exists within us. Then after the talk I'll discuss how we work up |
1:21.8 | some nerve. |
1:23.0 | But first, a quick break. |
1:25.0 | And now, Hannah Pryor takes the TED stage. |
1:34.0 | I was in my first job at a college, a shiny, prestigious big four public accounting firm. |
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