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Hey there, everybody. It is Saturday, April 25th. And we have a very fun episode for you.

I happen to stumble upon an article from a Harvard trained psychologist. I'll give her some love. Dr. Courtney Warren is her

name. And she says that there are eight things that couples who are emotionally secure regularly

talk about it. And she talks about these subjects with a question, a way of entering into these

types of conversations.

And so I thought it would be cool, babe, if we went over these eight topics to see if we

have these types of conversations that we're supposed to be having for us to know and

recognize that yes, in fact, we can trust each other.

Okay.

And emotionally, we have a secure relationship.

That is the goal, right?

To have a trusting, emotionally secure relationship.

Yes.

Is it?

Do people know that's the goal?

Do we think, don't we just want to feel good?

Somebody needs to come, be my partner to compliment me. I'm saying, I'm not challenging

you. I am saying, is that really what people go into relationships wanting these days? I think they

don't know to maybe use that language, but that is ultimately what we're seeking. Because for those

of us who have had some ups and downs, who have had some, some relationships that haven't ended like we hoped they would. That's all of us. Yes, exactly. Even if you've been married 45 years right now. Correct. Your relationship didn't end the way you thought it would. Yeah. And even if you have been in a marriage for, I don't know how many years, is it a successful one? How do you define success? And I think a lot of people would define

success by how connected and close you feel to that partner. How much can you trust them? How much

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