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The Daily Stoic

Wait For It To Settle | Practice Gentleness Instead Of Anger

The Daily Stoic

Daily Stoic | Backyard Ventures

Education, Stoicism, Stoic, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Business, Daily Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, 694393

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2023

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

In the demands of daily life, in the immediacy of a heightened moment, in the pincering crush of competing interests—we rarely make good decisions. Whether it’s because we don’t have all the information, or we are biased by impressions, or we are blinded by emotions…it doesn’t really matter. What matters is the virtuousness of the decisions we make.

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And in today's excerpt reading from the Daily Stoic Journal, Ryan discusses why the Stoics believed that the true Stoic strives to confront frustrating situations with gentleness by examining an example from his own life.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast.

0:05.7

Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoic's illustrated with stories

0:11.0

from history, current events, and literature to help you be better at what you do.

0:16.0

And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of Stoic

0:20.0

intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave

0:25.0

you with, to journal about whatever it is you happen to be doing.

0:28.8

So let's get into it.

0:43.3

Wait for it to settle.

0:45.7

In the demands of daily life in the immediacy of a heightened moment in the pincering crush

0:50.9

of competing interests, we rarely make good decisions.

0:54.8

Whether it's because we don't have all the information or we are biased by impressions

0:58.2

or we are blinded by emotions, it doesn't really matter.

1:01.9

What matters is the virtuousness of the decisions that we make.

1:06.2

In one of F. Scott Fitzgerald's best short stories, the four fists, he talks about a man

1:11.4

who is infatuated with a married woman.

1:14.3

For the next week Samuel was in a nervous turmoil Fitzgerald, right?

1:18.6

Some persistently rational strain warned him that at the bottom he and Marjorie had little

1:23.6

in common, but in such cases there is usually so much mud in the water that one can sell

1:28.9

them see the bottom.

1:30.6

Missled by his impulses, the clarity would in this case only come later in the shock of

1:36.2

a fist to the face from the woman's husband.

1:39.5

As it happens this metaphor of muddy water was used by both the Buddhists and the Stoics.

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