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Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to Podcast. Welcome everyone to a special edition of Amy and T.J. where we stayed up with probably a lot of you all listening to watch the vice presidential debate this evening and I have to say I was pleasantly surprised

TJ it was civil it was substantive I can't ever say that word very well but they

really went into the issues and they actually

were respectful of one another and they reserved whatever negativity they

had towards the top of the ticket, towards their running mates, and not towards one another.

And I was shocked, but in a good way.

I guess it's fortunate where we are.

If we are shocked that two people political opponents can be civil and decent each other which

If you all weren't able to stay up and watch the entire thing, then that is thing number one, I suppose, just to see

them come out and smile and be pleasant and shake hands.

At the top, even through the moderators all for a second, that everybody was on stage in a position

when it started.

They did kind of some introductions and the two guys kind of not being prompted on their

own.

They went over and shook hands and it threw the moderators off they had to

kind of pause and even seemed like the director of the thing didn't even realize

that moment was going to happen. Tonally, throughout, you heard them go back and

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