You know, we're all toiling for something as a parent and the question is, is it the right thing and is it going to get us towards that end goal?

But at the end of the day, if our kids don't love Christ, man, that hurts as a parent, it really does.

So that's really where our aim is with our kids and I feel like we can weather a lot if there's a love for Christ there.

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If you could go back in time and redo your parenting, what's just one thing you would do differently?

My parenting or your parenting?

We're not talking about me. This is you today.

The first one that comes to my mind is Seize the Day.

What do you mean?

Seize Moments.

I read somewhere you have 936 weeks from the time your son or daughter is born until they hit 18.

I think I'd been more intentional with each week.

I feel like you were intentional. You're saying consistently.

Oh, I just feel, what would you say?

I know you asked me, but I'm curious.

I want you in my list.

I wish I would have responded more to their situations instead of reacting.

I think I reacted in fear often instead of responding and had more of a questioning view of what makes you say that or what makes you tempted to do that or what are you struggling with?

I wish I would have gotten into the core of who they are as young men.

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