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How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.31.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2026

⏱️ 44 minutes

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🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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All right, most men think they know what women want.

0:32.6

They think it's about looks, money, or saying the right line.

0:35.6

So...

0:36.6

They try to impress. They compliment. They show

0:39.7

interest and then nothing. She doesn't respond. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And you're

0:44.9

left wondering what the hell he has that you don't. The truth is most men are doing things that

0:50.0

actively push women away and they have absolutely no idea. But what if you could hear directly from a woman that gets hit on thousands of times a day?

0:58.0

Yes, thousands of times and she can tell you it makes her into one guy and want one guy

1:04.0

and then totally turned off by the other guys.

1:07.0

What if she could tell you the specific behaviors that make women lean in versus pull away?

1:11.8

And what if this had nothing to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account?

1:16.4

Well, today you're going to hear from someone who has a perspective most women will never have.

1:21.1

Her name is Kit Barris.

1:22.6

She has degrees in mathematics and psychology.

1:25.4

And she's in the top 0.1% of creators on OnlyFans,

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