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Welcome to Query.

Hey Query, I was Cammy here.

First of all, I want to tell you that Philadelphia already sold out in my book tour, and we had

at a second date, also DC sold out, and we can't add a second date.

So if you live in Los Angeles, New York, Boston, Chicago, San Francisco Portland, or Seattle,

your tickets now at cameraNespisito.com slash tour, I think all the dates will sell out.

Also, let's say you don't live in one of those cities, but you would like to pre-order

my book because it massively will help me to get on the New York Times bestseller list.

Well, then you could go to SaveYourSelfbook.com and pre-order it right now.

I swear, I'm very proud of it, and it's really fucking good.

Hey, this week on the podcast, we have got Vicki Vox, Awesome Drag Queen, and the host

of the New Year Wolf Show doing great with Vicki Vox.

And you know what?

Here's something I'll say about little Cammy Espisito.

Number one, we had a lot of fun in this interview.

Number two, around 45 minutes in, we also had like a very serious discussion, and that

is what I am bringing to you as an interviewer, joking around and laughing, and asking you

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