Vanessa Van Edwards

Danica Patrick Pretty Intense Podcast

Jennifer Cawley

Danica Patrick, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Pretty Intense

4.6 • 995 Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2022

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Thanks so much for tuning into the Pretty Intense Podcast. Today we have Vanessa Van Edwards. She is an author. She is a behavioral investigator and a body language trainer. Her first book is called "Captivate" and her latest book is called "Cues". This is all about the signals we give through out with our body language. These cues can be verbal, non verbal, vocal, and imagery. When we learn to read these cues, we can read if people are trust worthy, anxious, confident, or a liar. When we learn to control the cues we are sending out, we can project an image of confidence, intelligence, worthiness, and trustworthy, rather than one of defeat, insecurity, incompetence or even untruthful. Vanessa gives us great tips on how to get the best out of a first impression, that are really useful for work, for dating, for all interaction. We hope you enjoy this episode.

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0:00.0	So, Oxytocin does a lot of things in our body.
0:02.0	It makes us feel connected.
0:03.0	So when we're making eye contact with people,
0:04.8	when we handshake, when we touch, we have moments,
0:07.1	we're like, oh, you do that?
0:08.2	Yes, I do that too.
0:09.7	That all produces this chemical that makes us
0:11.7	for the warm and fuzzies. They found that if people do nose
0:14.4	sprays ofoxone like they will participate, collaborate, and give away more money in
0:20.2	prisoners dilemma games. Oh my God there's a whole market for this now.
0:23.4	The other thing that we're looking for is dopamine, the chemical of pleasure.
0:27.1	It's also the chemical of motivation. When we feel excited about something, we want to learn more.
0:32.1	This is why when I answer a question
0:34.4	that I haven't answered before, it actually gives myself dopamine, right? Like I
0:38.3	get to share a story I haven't shared. So my secret push for asking non socially scripted questions.
0:45.0	The secret reason I'm doing that is not only because you might find out something,
0:49.0	it's also to wake them up,
0:51.0	that they might get to talk about something that gets them a little bit excited.
0:55.0	And that in a weird way makes you more memorable.
1:00.0	Hello, welcome to the Pretty Intense Podcast. Thank you very much for listening. I really appreciate you as a listener and this is such important work to me and so by subscribing and liking and commenting, you're telling me that you really like what you
1:14.4	what you're hearing so to get into it today we have Vanessa Van Edwards she is an
1:19.2	author she's a behavioral investigator that drives her books.
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