Validation and Red Flags | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu (Replay)

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

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🗓️ 3 May 2024

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu discuss relationship red flags, insecurity, not having children, and more in this episode of Relationship Theory. [Original air date: 4-19-17.] Tom Bilyeu is the co-founder of 2014 Inc. 500 company Quest Nutrition — a unicorn startup valued at over $1 billion — and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory. Impact Theory is a first-of-its-kind company designed to facilitate global change through the incubation of mission-based businesses and the cultivation of empowering content. Every piece of content Impact Theory creates is meant to underscore the company mission to free people from The Matrix and help them unlock their true potential. Impact Theory exists to inspire the next generation of game-changing companies and creators that will make a true and lasting impact on the world. FOLLOW LISA: Lisa’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Women of Impact Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en FOLLOW TOM: Tom’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Impact Theory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Tom’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu Impact Theory Twitter: https://twitter.com/impact_theory?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Tom’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu/ Impact Theory’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactTheoryOfficial/ SPONSORS: For comprehensive financial news and analysis, visit the brand behind every great investor, https://yahoofinance.com. save on the perfect gift by visiting https://auraframes.com/IMPACT to get $30-off plus free shipping on their best-selling frame. Use this link and Hartford Gold will give you up to $15,000 dollars of FREE silver on your first qualifying: order.offers.americanhartfordgold.com/content-affiliate/?&leadsource=affiliate&utm_sfcampaign=701Rb000009EnmrIAC Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/impact Explore the Range Rover Sport at https://landroverusa.com. Go to https://ground.news/tom and you can get 40% off unlimited access this month. https://bit.ly/GroundImpact Go to https://go.lumen.me/impact and get $50 off your Lumen! Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://drinkag1.com/impact. Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to https://aura.com/IMPACT to start your free two-week trial. Take control of your gut health by going to https://tryviome.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 20% off your first 3 months and free shipping. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, Tom AMAs, and so much more!* This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Impact Theory podcast, your source of empowering ideas and actionable techniques from the world's highest achievers.
0:08.9	Join host Tom Bill You, serial entrepreneur and co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition, on a journey to unlock your potential and realize your vision of success.
0:19.8	Welcome to Impact Theory.
0:27.0	Hey, everybody.
0:28.4	Welcome, welcome, welcome to our Facebook live episode of Relationship Theory.
0:34.0	I'm your co-host, Tom Bill You, and I am here with Lisa Bill You.
0:37.9	Yeah, buddy. And we're going to be talking relationships, taking your questions, as always.
0:42.9	All right, let's get right into it.
0:44.3	All right, let's get right into it. So this is a question from last week's episode on YouTube.
0:50.5	And I need to get more social. Like, I don't really go and make, I know, you hate it.
0:57.2	I don't really comment often. I get very busy and sadly, in fact, not sadly, I don't
1:02.6	prioritize it and I really should start to. But this caught my eye so much that actually
1:06.9	responded, saying how much I love the question. Wow. This really must be a question and a half
1:11.4	then. So this is the first question. This is from Kayla Wilburn on YouTube. And she says,
1:17.9	my boyfriend tells me it isn't his job to validate me. Is this a red flag? I love this question.
1:25.1	All right. Well, why don't you break down? And I love it because I think we're going to have different answers.
1:47.9	Very interesting. All right. Or at least an adapt, I think you'll probably, yeah, adapt my answer a bit. I'll adapt your answer. I'm not sure how to take that. You're saying I bite your answers? Is that what we're saying? No, no. Okay, So, yeah, so it isn't his job to validate me.
1:55.0	The question is, do you validate yourself, right? Do you have self-confidence and are you strong enough within yourself that you can take, let's say, outside criticism in general?
2:00.8	The problem is, I remember I used to look at you
2:03.5	and almost the same thing, like one validation of, am I pretty, am I smart enough, am I doing a
2:10.5	good job? Like, I would turn to you for that. And I remember you basically turned around to me one day
2:16.2	and was like, you need to find that within yourself.
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