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So I was trying to help my husband about, I guess, a year and a half ago, September

2023 basically.

I asked if I could borrow from his 401 so that I could, you know, invest in flips and flip

them and then help pay down the

mortgage so he could retire earlier. The first house did not sell and I was nearing the end of the

loan, a high money loan, so I had to refinance. We refinance that. So now we're stuck with that

house, but the renter is paying for that. It's covering the expenses. I did it again with the hopes of, you know, the same goal. And now I'm stuck with a house

that is nearing its maturity for the hard money loan to be paid. So I'm trying to figure out

whether I should refinance and go because I'm going to suffer a loss. I can't sell this

for some reason.

It's the interest rates in the area that we're in.

So I don't know if I should sell it at a loss or refinance it into a hard,

I mean, to a conventional loan again so that I can pay back the hard money lender

and just keep the house and rent it for a while to recoup my money back

and try to resell it later.

I think we need to, we got a sunk cost fallacy here, and you keep digging yourself into a hole,

and you touch the hot stove, and then you did it again, and so I think we need to get out

of the real estate game entirely.

I don't know that I would, what's the loss on this that you would take it would be at least

12,000 okay I'm getting out do you guys have this money do you have it do you have any money in the

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