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So when I told my wife, she was the most supportive person that could ever be in that type of situation when, you know, your significant other announces that they're quitting their job.

This is a guy we're calling Andy. About a year ago, Andy threw in the towel. He stepped away from a lifelong career that had been an important part of his identity.

And even in an era when lots of people are re-evaluating their life, their work, their life's work, Andy felt like he was making a huge move.

I actually, I texted my wife. I wrote up my resignation and I took a picture of it and I texted it to her.

And she said, what's this? And I said, my resignation and from there, just her response was just so positive. She was like, I love you. I'm here for you. This is the right decision. This is what's best for you.

You're going to feel so much better. Like, don't worry. We'll figure everything out.

And there was a lot to figure out. He was in a line of work where it's hard not to bring your work home with you.

Where your colleagues often form a strong network even beyond the day job. Andy's day job was the only line of work he had ever known.

I just couldn't do it anymore.

He was also leaving the family business in a way. Three generations deep and he still hasn't told them all why.

Oh, no, yeah, no, not at all. But we know why and so do thousands of strangers on Reddit because Andy spelled it all out in a post in the off my chest community in online space where people go to confess things anonymously.

The title of that post, I did it. I just resigned from my career in law enforcement after 15 years.

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