Hello, this is gonna come across as a lot more formal than usual because I wrote everything

down to try and keep it succinct and there's no way of turning off adverts either so if

there is a sudden ad in the middle of what I'm saying then I apologize I just there

isn't a way for me to turn them off.

There's lots of people who have emailed in the last six weeks who maybe don't have social

media or didn't see anything on social media wondering where we were and whether we were

okay so I guess I just wanted to be clear about what had happened.

Dan died suddenly on the 10th of June.

There wasn't any illness or deterioration that we had kept a secret and there was no

warning that it was coming.

He was simply alive one minute and then he wasn't.

If you're here in this for the first time which I know lots of people will be I understand

that you might feel the need to reach out to me but I would ask that people don't contact

me regarding Dan's death and I also understand that the need to reach out to me comes from

a place of love but just at this moment in time it's not helpful for me and maybe it will

be at some point but just not right now.

I know that lots of people online have been expressing concern about me and worrying about

how I'm doing and I just want to ease people's worries by letting you know that I am surrounded

by family and friends and have a very good therapist and Bimy is also doing absolutely

fine if you can hear any scrabbling around because she's beside me.

In terms of Patreon I have paused the Patreon subscription so if you're a monthly subscriber

you won't be charged while there is no Patreon content.

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