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If you have not yet listened to the two episodes called forever alone stop right now because this episode is filled with spoilers you're going to scroll back when we're numbering episodes they were episodes 15 and 16 but if you have listen to those episodes I know you've been wondering I know you've possibly even messaged me about this on Instagram what happened.

What happened with Brian and Chelsea how is Chelsea truly aside from being asked about my lip color that is the question the people I believe asked me most online and we've been making the show for several years now and we haven't made

update episodes about past guest not because we don't want to we barely like you know had the capacity to make the episodes that we make let alone like go back and follow up with people so it's partially a capacity issue and then also partially that it's just a lot to ask someone to be like hey look you already did this deeply emotional and a truly vulnerable thing that word vulnerable I sort of struggle with it's like it's kind of like when this words like if you use it and I think you are it anyways it's like you

have done this incredibly sort of tender thing and now do you want to do it again you know it's just a lot but Chelsea's my friends so I was okay doing it although it took me a long time a little context about the forever alone

episodes it was going to be one episode telling the story of my friend Chelsea because like many women who have straight female friends I have a lot of amazing single female friends friends where you're

like what why is she single like truly 100% of my husband's two out of two have been like Chelsea's great she's amazing she's the best she's cute she's smart she's funny I'm like okay relax like you already made your choice you already made this

bed you got a lay in it but that's how I felt about Chelsea that's how I always felt about her I met her when I was in my mid 20s she's a couple years younger than me and the last long term relationship

that she had had was in her teenage years and throughout our friendship she'd like go in a couple dates it was a lot or like she'd be really excited about some of the be really into her and then all the sudden but it's over and I hated that because I love her I want her to get whatever she wants I wanted to just do an

idea about that feeling that so many of us have had before that there's just nobody out there for you and what that does to a person so we do this interview and you know maybe in the back of my mind because I am a

lot of hope to someone would hear it and be like wait I love Chelsea and I would be you know the podcast matchmaker of nobody's dreams so we start making that first episode and then I do metal

I met her I had somewhat recently you know been been partnered up again I met Matthew my current husband and he came with a whole new group of people that included single men the decent single men for the first time in a long time kind of a lot of them so I'm like surveying his friends they're all hot they're all interesting and one of them was named Brian and he was in a band with Matthew and that band

played in our basement every Sunday so one Sunday I just casually invite Chelsea over when I know the band is playing then I casually I'm just making a great dinner which I never do and then I casually invite only Chelsea and Brian to stay for dinner and then fam they're dating

the matchmaker of nobody's dreams.

Brian was when he and Chelsea met, he was recovering from alcohol addiction and he had been sober

for a while and then he was not.

Soapr and the alcohol turned their relationship into a thrupple and as much as I wanted to

be, the world's best matchmaker, it was not working.

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