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to speak about this in public. And that is to send number one ad-A'ah for my wife

that may Allah SWT bless you and may Allah SWT reward you for all the support that you

have given me ever since I decided to walk through in the path of Da'wa. And I looked into

the life of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi sallam and he was never ashamed to publicly

Masha'iz his wives and publicly send those messages of love and compassion even after the

death of Khadija, the Allah wa'anahu wa'a'r-daha he maintained that loyalty. So,

Sheikh Mehmetullah, why in some cultures Subhanallah, I'll even find some Muslims they feel ashamed

of even mentioning the name of the wives in public. You know Subhanallah when brother Wail told me

earlier I want to do a video he didn't tell me what it was I'm just hearing this now. So,

to speak about your wife even with her name and so on obviously there's nothing wrong. Why

some cultures don't like to mention the name they say that it's out of respect and so on but

you could have a pen name meaning you could have a pet name you could have a nickname which is also

part of the Sunnah. Sometimes people don't want the public to know the name of their wife right?

That's okay but if someone thinks it's Haram from an Islamic perspective then they are wrong.

It's not Haram from an Islamic perspective to say to call your husband or wife by their names

but in some cultures they just consider it disrespectful because of cultural reasons like I say because

they rather call them Umfulan or Umfulan a mother of so and so which is also part of the Sunnah

but it does not negate the permissibility to use the first name I mean that is the name so that is

there but unfortunately some people think it's Haram to call your wife or the first name and even to

praise her or to mention her in public and the same applies the other way where some of the women

think that you cannot call your husband by his first name. It's a cultural matter not a

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