Unperturbable: Ghosted, But Now She’s Back!

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2022

⏱️ 17 minutes

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The importance of being unperturbable when you get ghosted, but she comes back later.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's
0:05.1	newsletter is going to be unperturable, ghosted, but now she's back. I've got an email. This is
0:14.1	from a guy. He met a girl online. He said it was a girl that totally knocked a socks off. They
0:19.6	had four great dates, I believe.
0:22.0	All four dates ended in a successful session of the indoor Olympics. And then she was heading out
0:28.6	of town for a trip with her friends. Then she just basically ghosted and disappeared on him
0:34.6	for about a month and a half. And then she texted him out of the blue at 3 a.m.
0:39.3	And then he texted her back to next day and it's almost like she acted like she didn't even remember the fact that she texted him
0:45.3	because probably she'd been drinking or whatever.
0:48.3	And so now he's thinking about sending her a nasty message and letting her know that he didn't appreciate her reaching out
0:56.7	and jerking him around.
0:58.5	And so this email brings up the importance of being unperturable and not getting but hurt.
1:06.7	Just having an unattached, take it or leave it, kind of attitude.
1:11.6	Because as you see, when I go through this email, it's a pretty common thing that there's obviously another dude.
1:20.6	Maybe it's an ex-boyfriend because what happens a lot of times is a girl breaks up with a guy.
1:26.6	She was dating. she gets in the dating
1:28.2	apps trying to get over it, meets a new guy probably like this guy here.
1:33.6	Things go well and they progress over several weeks and then the X is back in the picture and
1:38.5	then poof, they disappear because emotionally they're anchored to the X still and they're
1:43.8	hoping that it's
1:44.5	going to work out.
1:46.4	And then as soon as things go sideways with the X again, they're back.
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