Unnecessary Romantic Self-Sabotage

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2021

⏱️ 11 minutes

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How you can avoid unnecessary romantic self-sabotage due to becoming overwhelmed by irrational fears.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.7	And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be unnecessary romantic self-sabotage.
0:10.4	So this is an interesting email because this particular guy, he's reading my book,
0:15.6	trying to fall along with things and then he becomes totally overwhelmed by his irrational fears when he's on a date
0:23.5	with this girl that he really liked and things this girl obviously really liked him because when
0:27.7	they first met she asked him if she could kiss him and she did and so he goes out in the date
0:35.4	and about an hour into it he kind of panics he's like oh I'm going to screw this up let me end it now so he goes out in the date and about an hour into it. He kind of panics.
0:38.1	He's like, oh, I'm going to screw this up.
0:39.3	Let me end it now.
0:40.9	So he tries to end the date early.
0:42.2	And then the girl takes it as a rejection.
0:45.4	And then later on, he starts, bloke up all of his insecurities and his fears and his doubts.
0:51.1	And talks about his emotions like they, all the feminists tell you to do and he basically
0:55.6	acts like an insecure chick and then he ends up hanging out with her and he's thinking hey I'm
1:01.4	turning this around and then later at the end of the night he wants to kiss her and she wants
1:05.0	nothing to do with it and he's thinking what did I do? So he basically talked her out of liking him.
1:11.6	And so you can kind of see this. I mean, this happens. It's like you can imagine if you become hijacked by your fears, you become overwhelmed. Like in this case, this guy wanted to get the hell out of there. He's thinking, I better leave it in the date early because she's not going to like me if I stick around too long. And so he's driven by his fears, and he literally caused a situation to happen where she didn't like him. And he screwed it up. And he's scratching his head. Why? It's like he did it to himself. You have to feel the fear. You have to do it anyway. I mean, if she's with you, if she's on a date, make the best of it and see what happens. The goal is to
1:44.6	apply the fundamentals of what's in 3% man. So you can successfully seduce her. And so I got a
1:53.2	quote that I wrote and we'll go through his email. The quote says, in order to get what you
1:56.0	want in life, you must take action in spite of your fears instead of becoming hijacked by them.
2:01.8	Fears are the greatest destroyers of dreams and goals because people tend to avoid what they fear
2:06.4	despite the fact that getting what they want in life requires taking action even when they are
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