This year, you're going to need something so important and something that you probably least suspect that I'm going to say.

But it is paramount for you to understand this as we talk about and I teach you in this last installment of Grow Your If Factor, Feminine Power Edition.

And what I'm about to tell you may really shock you, but hear me out.

What you need in 2024 is discernment.

That's right, you need discernment.

You need to discern what is deemed worthy of your time and what's deemed a distraction of your time.

Why is that? Because once you know those two, you're able to show up and make decisions that don't

rob you out of the confidence and the security that you need to show up as your best self.

Because when you don't know those things, it's easy to step out of your God-given identity

to chase after something that's a mere distraction or to chase after something that's not worth your time. Let me give you an example.

I don't know about you, but when I was in high school, you know, I had a little boyfriend

and he broke up with me. I tried to convince him and persuade him that we needed to get back

together. Why? Because I lacked so much identity that I showed up from a

place of striving. I showed up from a place of trying to make something happen that was never

supposed to happen. And I stepped out of my power into desperation. Instead of me being the prize,

I didn't see myself as a prize. I didn't see myself as a gift. And so I relinquish my power because I lacked identity. The only way for you to step into that feminine power and that confidence and that security is you must have identity through Jesus and a close relationship

with Jesus. Why? Because he will instruct you and say, that's a distraction. That's not worth your time.

That rejection was my protection. So many times we chase things in an attempt to try to make things happen.

We chase things in an attempt to try to prove to people, to try to get them to see us how we want

them to see us. Can I tell you something? It's time for you to start seeing you as God sees you. Let's start

there. When you see you as God sees you, you don't feel this exterior pressure to try to be something

and become something that is not. Once you do that, you are cheapening who God created you to be. The very fact that there's

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