meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

Uninvited Guests - Why Marriage Still Matters

Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

Living on the Edge

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In this program, hear what the research reveals about cohabitation and long-term relationships, and why this sacred covenant is so much more than just a simple piece of paper.

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #3:

  • Marriage is merely a man-made set of rules and restrictions. I can tailor my marriage however I want to fit my needs.

The truth:

  • Marriage is an institution created by God. He designed it with specific guidelines and roles to provide SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, and PHYSICAL intimacy as a family’s foundation.

Key verse:

  • Genesis 2:24-25

Lie #4 (for men):

  • Until my wife shows me the respect and physical affection that I need, she shouldn’t expect me to step up and lead my family God’s way.

The truth:

  • It is tempting to wait for my wife to do her part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the HUSBAND God wants me to be.

Key verse:

  • Ephesians 5:25

Lie #5 (for women):

  • Until my husband takes the initiative in the financial, emotional, and spiritual aspects of our relationship, he shouldn’t expect me to show him the respect and affection God calls me to as a wife.

The truth:

  • It is tempting to wait for my husband to do his part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the WIFE God wants me to be.

Key verse:

  • Ephesians 5:22-24

Broadcast Resource

Additional Resource Mentions

Connect

Partner With Us

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

For decades, society has viewed a couple living together as a necessary step, almost

0:07.0

like a form of relational insurance for marriage.

0:10.0

I mean, doesn't it make sense to know someone's committed to you or that you're compatible

0:15.0

on a sexual, emotional, and mental level?

0:17.0

Well, today on Living on the Edge, our Bible teacher, Chip Ingram, jumps into the

0:21.5

contentious issue of cohabitation and highlights what God's word says about this relevant topic.

0:28.0

I'm Dave Drouy, and in just a minute we'll pick up in our series Uninvited Guests, as Chip

0:33.1

continues to identify the dangerous lies couples believe that can slowly destroy their relationships.

0:39.3

And before Chiff gets going, let me encourage you to try using his message notes while you listen.

0:44.3

They contain his outline, scripture references, and some key fill-ins to help you remember what you hear.

0:50.3

Download them under the broadcasts tab at Livingon theedge.org, app listeners, tap

0:56.5

fill in notes. Well, if you're ready, here now is Chip with his message, why marriage still

1:02.2

matters. You know, when we think of marriage, especially as Christians, we think about it as

1:08.4

the union of a man and a woman, the importance of what God has

1:12.2

set up for us to thrive as a society. But there are sociologists and people all around the

1:17.9

world now that are deeply, deeply concerned at the decline in marriages. Because when that institution

1:24.6

is in decline, there is a domino effect that impacts society,

1:29.8

economics, the health and welfare of children.

1:33.2

And this decline to marriage is a huge problem.

1:35.9

But behind it is a lie.

1:37.8

And this is a lie that's been spread all across the world that it really doesn't matter

1:42.1

if you're married or not.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Living on the Edge, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Living on the Edge and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.