Unfiltered: Your Trauma Makes You Stronger with Zoe Scurletis
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 6 January 2022
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide, and spiraling into depression. We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing, why The Bachelor franchise is wrongfully encouraging trauma bonding, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.9 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:14.0 | Each Thursday on Unfiltered, I'll be bringing on a different anonymous guests to open up about |
| 0:18.4 | their real life dating experiences. We'll discuss what they went through or are going through, how they navigated it, what they've learned, and what advice they have to anyone else going through something similar. Unfiltered is your reminder that no matter what you're going through, you're not alone. If you have a topic that you'd like to discuss on Unfiltered, please email your story to seeing other people podcast at gmail.com |
| 0:38.0 | to be considered for an episode. Real people, real stories, real life. This is seeing other people |
| 0:43.7 | unfiltered. On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Zoe, a 26-year-old mental health |
| 0:49.3 | advocate. Zoe opens up about her personal struggles with mental health and an eating disorder. |
| 0:53.6 | We discuss when and how you should communicate mental illness and past traumas with a date, |
| 0:57.7 | how to balance being naturally vulnerable without oversharing, |
| 1:00.6 | and why we think The Bachelor has been promoting unhealthy dating habits and glorifying trauma bonding. |
| 1:05.4 | This episode may be triggering to those who have sensitivities surrounding eating disorders and suicide. |
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| 1:35.9 | And we are in the episode. |
| 1:38.4 | Welcome to Unfiltered Zoe. |
| 1:41.4 | It's so weird to say your name on an unfiltered episode, but I am so truly |
| 1:46.5 | excited and grateful that you're here. Welcome. Why don't you introduce yourself and let the seeing |
| 1:51.5 | other people in the unfiltered family know who you are and what you're here to talk about. |
| 1:55.1 | Oh, thank you so much for having me. I'm so honored and excited to be here. I was so excited to record with you last week and it's just awesome being here. |
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