Hello and welcome to a special Ask Me Anything episode of I Wei with Jamida Jamil.

I love these episodes. This is where you ask your questions and I bring on someone very clever

to help me answer them and we try to work out solutions together that might make your life or the world a happier place.

And this week was very focused on marriage,

I think I've seen ever.

She's been married to someone who I know well,

his name's Conan O'Brien, he's a hilarious comedian, a total legend, he's been on this

podcast before and was fantastic.

They've been married and in love for well over two decades and are still together, still in love, still speak so highly of one another, and when they're together

there's just this ease that you're like, how are you achieving this after all this time and having

children and one of you having this very public career in the limelight, how the

fuck you balancing all of this? And so Liza was very kind as to give us an

insight into that dynamic and the challenges and the hurdles of that and

different problems that people who have children might face and ways around it

through her own experience. It's a very, very warm and intimate and honest chat and I was really surprised as to how many of you were asking about marriage and a long-term relationship especially after children because I know it can add

so many stresses that society just doesn't do enough to warn us about and so we talk a lot about

about relationships how to maintain, how to keep your cool, how to self-investigate.

And we also talk about Liza's fantastic podcast called Significant Others, where she talks about all the people in very famous known

public figures and historical figures lives who weren't shouted out, who maybe we don't

know about, who were instrumental in that person's success and journey,

whether it was for good reasons or bad.

And it's a brilliant, brilliant podcast that's narrated by lots of different people.

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