Understanding Yourself in Dating & Relationships with Erin Claire Jones
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2025
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Summary
Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in love. Erin explains what Human Design is, how it compares to tools like astrology or the Enneagram, and how your chart reveals insights into your relationship patterns and emotional wiring. They talk about the five Human Design types and how each one tends to show up in dating, why we’re drawn to certain people, and how to tell the difference between authentic traits and protective patterns. Erin also shares what she’s learned from working with thousands of couples, how to navigate red flags, and how your design can help you stop second-guessing yourself when it comes to love.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.5 | Okay, you guys, I am so excited for today's guest. |
| 0:11.3 | We have Erin Claire Jones on seeing other people with us. |
| 0:14.2 | Erin is a human design expert. |
| 0:16.1 | She has a brand new book, How Do You Choose Out Now? |
| 0:19.3 | And I'm both like so honored to have her, but also a little |
| 0:23.9 | nervous because we're going to learn about not just human design, but she's going to share like what |
| 0:28.5 | my human design is. And we'll see how that goes. Erin, welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:34.3 | Thank you so much. I'm so happy to be here. |
| 0:49.2 | Okay. Where to begin? I feel like we need to break down because many people probably have not heard of human design. So can you explain for the listeners what human design is? And we'll go from there. I would love to. So human |
| 0:57.7 | design is a mystical assessment tool. It is based on your time, date, and place of birth like |
| 1:02.4 | astrology. And it gives you all this very practical information around how you operate optimally |
| 1:07.6 | in the world, from how you best make decisions, to how you can articulate |
| 1:11.6 | your relationship needs, to how you can find a partner, to what your biggest strengths are, |
| 1:15.4 | your challenges, and so much more. |
| 1:17.6 | But it basically really gives you your own roadmap to finding your flow in your life. |
| 1:22.6 | And I personally love this because I think so often we look to others and emulate what others |
| 1:26.6 | have done and discover my network for us. And I think human design is such a powerful tool to be like, |
| 1:31.1 | but what will work for you and what are practical tools to really bring that to life today? |
| 1:35.5 | I love that you said that because I always say, you know, like especially with dating and |
| 1:40.2 | advice out there with social media, like there's so much noise and what works for one person |
| 1:44.7 | might not work for you. And the same thing with like asking your whole group chat for dating |
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