I'm Oprah Winfrey. Welcome to Super Soul Conversations, the podcast. I believe that one of

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Let me ask you a question, for example, if your husband forget Valentine's Day or your

birthday, do you come right out and remind him or are you one of those people who say nothing

about it, but you burn inside and hold it and wait for the next argument to come up and

wait for him to figure it out? Where's Anne? So my name is Anne.

Oh, I totally start way beforehand. I mean, two, three weeks because I get really excited

so I start pumping them up and say, oh, I can't wait to be with you. It's going to be a

great day. We're going to have a blast. And then if for some reason he would forget,

it goes totally to the silent treatment. And it might last a week or so and he usually

doesn't get it. So then it'll have to come out and we'll have a, what should I say,

heated discussion, I guess.

Okay, Carol and where are you? Yeah, what'd you say to that question?

I would hurt me, but I wouldn't say anything I would internalize it.

It would hurt you if you forgot your birthday or Valentine's Day.

Yeah, it would hurt, but I wouldn't say anything and I don't think he would even notice

that I was upset for what if not, maybe that's why I'm divorced, but you know.

Okay, okay. Until you are divorced?

Yes, I am.

Yeah, we can see that emotional style didn't work for you.

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