Unconsciously Competent Ep. One "Pick We"

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4.7 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to the true birth of Unconsciously Competent Podcast!

In this pilot episode, Kash and Tahoe unpack accountability, dating transitions, vulnerability in men, discernment in relationships, and the patience required to grow something real, whether that’s love, self-mastery, or a goal you refuse to quit on. The topics may feel familiar at times but the perspectives we share will shift you!

Our pilot births our signature segment “Pick We”. One topic, two opposing arguments, and one rule that matters most… you can’t argue your own position. It’s about learning how the other side thinks, not proving you’re right.

When we sat down you wouldn’t believe it but we didn’t even have a name. After being held back long enough, we did the only thing that mattered. We sat down and talked. And began shaping the vision.
You will get to hear the exact moment the name Unconsciously Competent was born, mid-conversation, proving that sometimes clarity comes after you start.

This episode was recorded in July 2023. Yes 2023! It’s January 2026 now… and somehow, it still arrived right on time. Along the road…Life lifed. Hard. Between parenting special-needs kids, running multiple platforms, navigating ADHD, grief, growth, and responsibility, consistency wasn’t always possible, but commitment never left the room. However Competence Collective, Unconsciously Competent didn’t launch late, it launched when we were ready. So while some references reflect the time it was recorded know that the true wisdom is timeless.

Ready to let your ignorance meet its match? Stay and grow with us!

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Yo, good morning. First of all, welcome back to so shameless, but this isn't so shameless.
0:08.9	This is a premiere of my new show with Cassia Vanessa called Unconsciously Competent, right?
0:17.5	It's a mix on like, yo, I should know this this things that we don't know that we should know
0:23.0	and we want to know 100% so that when we're working in life we're moving in life like things
0:27.7	aren't oblivious to us we aren't ignorant about it but it's coming from a male and a female's point
0:34.8	of view where we want to know things about not only ourselves but the
0:40.0	opposite sex. I should know that about you. You should know this about me. But we don't spend
0:46.2	enough time studying each other. We want the other people to study us. Let's put it like this.
0:53.1	This is a show about seeking to understand more than seeking to be
0:58.3	understood this is our pilot episode and of course i get my butt kicked right because i'm the
1:06.8	least competent person that most of y'all know but it's great conversation um i'm putting this
1:12.8	over over here so that you guys get a taste of it no heart's off just you know get a bit of it um
1:20.8	and if you like the show go on over to unconsciously competent subscribe make this a part of your weekly listen.
1:30.5	Kasha is brilliant.
1:32.8	I am totally amazed by her brilliance.
1:35.9	And I'm hoping that you guys enjoy what we're bringing to you in 2026.
1:42.4	New episode is so shameless coming next week. but for now, let's get into Unconsciously
1:49.2	competent. Welcome to the Unconsciously Competent podcast, where ignorance meets its match.
1:56.1	I'm your host, Cash, strategist, sexologist, and professional growth agitator.
2:03.3	And I'm joined by my tag team partner in truth, Tahoe.
2:07.2	This podcast is for people confident enough to admit they don't know everything yet.
2:12.5	But real growth doesn't start with being right.
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