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Here's your success mentor, Darren Hardy.

This morning, I want to change your life. I have two questions that can do it. You might be irritated by these questions at first, but if you get

these, and I mean really get them, your life will never be the same, as mine hasn't been since I was

asked these two questions. It was 30 plus years ago back at that first personal development

seminar that I went to. After each subject was presented, you then break off with one of their

coaches. These coaches were usually just former students who are now auditing the program

and volunteering to help new students go through the program. They'd begin by asking,

how is the insert previous subject true in your life? No matter what circumstances I painted, no matter what

complaint I had, no matter the explanation of how the terrible behavior of others had been in my life,

their follow-up question was always, what's your part in the issue? I could still remember

how freaking irritating it was to get that question

back each time, no matter the story that I told them. I was certain that they just didn't get it.

It wasn't my fault. I didn't do anything to deserve this. I was the victim here. Couldn't they see

that? To that statement, they would ask, what are you going to do about it?

While irritating at first, once you step out of the story, out of the drama, out of the pain of feeling victimized,

these two questions help you take back control. They give you back your agency, not only to change the situation,

but also to forever change

yourself. In the answer to those two questions, you are no longer a victim. In fact, it becomes

impossible for anyone or anything to ever victimize you again. You gain complete, 100%

control over your life forevermore. Whatever happens, ask yourself, what's your part

in this? And what are you going to do about it? To simplify this even further, understand every

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