Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

If you don't manifest something fully till its end, even if it's the wrong thing,

you will have never finished that process, learned its wisdom, and achieved the level of certainty.

So certainty is so powerful. So I'm going to see this lesson in a tangent. Certainty is so powerful

that you should do everything in your power to achieve this consciousness. And the greatest way to achieve

certainty is to finish something. So when you finish something, you either see it makes you happy, blessed, and successful,

or you see that it was the wrong thing.

But you have certainty.

What a lot of people do is they assume the future.

They dream also about a lot of different things.

Like, oh, I want to do this or I want to do this project, I want to try this thing. They have all these different passions and ideas and I don't do any of them. Correct. Correct, because they're listening to everyone else's certainty. Your mom tells you, hey, this isn't going to be good for you. So you're living off of her certainty. It's not yours. In the Kabbalala, we call that actually the bread of shame,

meaning when I'm not the cause of my life, I have not earned spiritually a vessel to receive

abundance. I'm borrowing everyone else's vessel. I'm borrowing other people's opinions. I'm

living vicariously through everyone else's life. This is actually the greatest cause of sadness and shame and sorrow.

And people usually wake up 10, 20, 30, 40 years later, realizing I live somebody else's life.

And I listen to people because I'm a people pleaser.

I have my own self-worth issues, so on and so forth.

So I would say, like, right now, you should know that the greatest thing you can do for yourself

is to try things and to go all the way with them.

Someone asked me, how do I know this relationship is the right one?

I said, the only way you're going to know is to go all in at that stage that you're in because everyone's

thinking, I only want to go all in if I'm meant to marry that person. I'm not saying when you're just dating someone and you don't know. I'm saying when you're kind of like you invest a lot of time and you're wondering, you know, what do I do here? You're kind of in a limbo. Whenever you're stuck, just go all the way.

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