TU60: Preoccupation in Relationships – Signs and Solutions to Anxious Attachment
Therapist Uncensored Podcast
Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD
4.7 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 16 April 2018
⏱️ 35 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Therapist Uncensored, a podcast where therapists freely speak their minds about real life matters. |
| 0:09.0 | Welcome to Therapist Unsensored. I am Sue Marriott and I am Ann Kelly. Welcome to |
| 0:16.8 | today's episode. So today we're going to talk about attachment and we're going to |
| 0:21.2 | talk about the |
| 0:23.5 | continuum of attachment all the way over to the right and what we call the red the anxious |
| 0:28.0 | preoccupied attachment category. So let's stop for just a second for those of you that this isn't familiar too and |
| 0:34.8 | Sue why don't you tap in what are we talking about? So what you might want to do |
| 0:40.2 | because we don't want to just repeat things over and over on these episodes but at the same time we know that somebody might be just tuning in. |
| 0:45.6 | So if you go back one episode to 59 we cover more of the basics and we're going to jump in a little bit |
| 0:52.4 | further than that this time. |
| 0:54.4 | And also in episode 37 we talk about disorganized attachment, |
| 0:57.9 | organizing the disorganized. |
| 1:00.2 | And basically what the research shows is that there are four roughly organized categories. |
| 1:06.7 | That's one way to think of it. |
| 1:08.2 | From a research perspective that are pretty stable, lots of research that shows that this is very solid findings, right? |
| 1:16.0 | Organized categories of attachments. |
| 1:18.0 | Organized categories of attachment. There's organized secure, organized and secure, which is two different ones, which is preoccupied and |
| 1:24.4 | dismissive, and then there's something called disorganized. So that's just a quick, |
| 1:28.6 | very, very fast review. In an episode 59, we gave a pretty detailed description of dismissive attachment. |
| 1:37.0 | That's right and we've also spoken the only reason we're covering this again is because we're going to jump right into preoccupied. |
| 1:43.8 | But we've also covered the difference between these categories, which are the internal working |
| 1:49.7 | models. |
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