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Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

Trying to make sense of the Reiner Tragedy and the ethics of telling the story with Erin Khar

Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

Dave & Chris

Comedy, Health & Fitness, Health & Fitness:mental Health, Mental Health, Alternative Health

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Opening Dave welcomes Erin Carr; jokes about her elite equestrian past and chaotic scheduling. They reflect on how close they’ve become despite not knowing each other long. Erin’s Election Erin won a seat on a NYC Education Council. Work is “more than expected,” with conflict but also progress. She approaches policy case-by-case and avoids personalizing disagreements. Generational Talk Gen X nostalgia: grateful they came of age before social media. Appreciation for 90s/2000s music era and early internet. Dopey Press + Nick Reiner Case Erin learns Dave is suddenly “the Nick Reiner expert” in the news. Dave describes doing ABC News without deep prep. Social backlash: people saying his compilation episode was “too soon.” The Daily Dopey Strategy Dave explains putting out an episode every day. Monday replays, Tuesday Patreon/teasers, Wednesday “dose,” Thursday archive, Friday main show. Ethics of the Nick Reiner Compilation Erin’s critique: title framed it as “The Nick Reiner Tragedy,” centering the alleged perpetrator rather than the victims. Dave explains intention: to compile all Nick content because press and fans were asking. Discussion of ethics, stigma, addiction vs violence narratives. They settle on retitling it “The Reiner Family Tragedy.” Media + Stigma Erin: important to avoid framing mental illness or addiction as inherent violence. Dave: acknowledges the emotional weight, his personal connection, and desire not to exploit the moment. Reiner Family Horror Erin describes the magnitude of the tragedy: daughter finding parents, multiple family losses. Conversation about denial, shock, and the devastation for surviving family. Closing Dave ends with a quick Patreon pitch due to time constraints (Susan’s Nutcracker show).

Transcript

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0:00.0

All right. Hello and welcome to Dopey Tuesday, the podcast on Tuesdays on drugs, addiction, and dumb shit.

0:24.1

My name is Dave, and I'm joined by strung out author, elite ex-elite equestrian.

0:30.4

Maybe is there any kind of what's hopeful return to elite equestria and fucking unlicensed advice columnist.

0:39.5

Now my old, old, old friend, Aaron Carr, welcome back.

0:44.7

Thank you.

0:45.4

It's been too long.

0:46.4

It's been, we always say, I mean, it's ridiculous.

0:49.2

Like the last year, this year has been weird.

0:51.9

I know, but it's like we haven't been friends that long.

1:16.3

And it feels like I miss you. I know, I miss you too. I see you and I feel this family feeling. I know. Same. So we just have to like make it. I mean, part of it is like, I mean, it's often just scheduling, right? Well, if we really want to get serious, you want me to get serious? Yeah. I am horribly disorganized and you don't respond well to horrible disorganization.

1:17.5

Because, yes, that's true.

1:21.4

And then I don't respond well to you getting annoyed at me for being horribly disorganized. It's also like I need to have like an idea ahead of time for like planning purposes, right?

1:28.9

So like it's hard for me sometimes when it's last minute.

1:32.0

And that's and I don't know how to and I struggle.

1:34.2

And if I can do it last minute I do, but like when I can't, I can't.

1:38.4

And this fall has been really, really busy, which is probably a good thing.

1:47.9

But it's been like an insanely busy fall.

1:50.8

We did a dopey Patreon Zoom.

1:51.2

Uh-huh.

1:53.1

I want to say last week.

2:00.5

And one of the questions was what dopey regular recently won an election in New York City office.

2:01.3

And I knew it couldn't have been Ray nor Fentanyl J.

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