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Jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way. Yo, yo, yo, yo. Can we get Thanksgiving first? I'm hungry. What's up, y'all? It's Kadeen. And DeVal, the host of the Ellis Ever After podcast. This holiday season, tune out the noise and tune in to Ellis Ever After. On Ellis Ever After, we get real with our crew about family, love and marriage.

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It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, dating,

works, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on the air just like we're going to

read this one right here right now and you never know. It could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here it is. Strawberry letter. Thank you, nephew's subject trying to get through the holidays. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in love with another man, and I just need to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get with the new guy.

But I need your advice before I let a sure thing go and move on to a fairy tale lover.

I don't want to leave my current boyfriend just yet because he is getting my brakes fixed on my car

and he's getting me a bracelet that I want for Christmas. I already

saw it hiding in his drawer so I'm doing all I can to stay faithful until the new year. My new

man is in a similar situation, but he's married. He advised me to stay put while he lets his marriage

fizzle on out. He and his wife don't have any children so he can make a clean break.

We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him we might be moving too soon by choosing

to move in together.

I agree that I will put the apartment and all of the utilities in my name until his

divorce is finalized.

I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy and she wanted to meet him,

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