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Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom every day life.

Each one of these passages is based on the 2000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women.

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Try to be less like yourself.

A classic episode of Seinfeld begins with George Costanza having a revelation.

Every decision I have ever made in my entire life has been wrong.

George says, every instinct I have in every aspect of life is often wrong.

Then just do the opposite, Jerry says.

Yes, George has with excitement. I will do the opposite.

And for the rest of the episode, George has great success doing the opposite of what his instincts tell him to do.

And this is now known as the Costanza Principle.

And it turns out to be scientifically sound advice.

On a recent episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast, the positive psychiatrist Dr. Samantha Bordman said,

There's so much messaging today about like, you've always got to be yourself and trust your feelings.

And so I ask people, be on you.

Like, what is the opposite you feel like doing right now or who is somebody you really admire?

Like, what would they do in this moment?

And I think that that can get us closer to that version of ourselves we would like to be separating oneself from one's impulse.

You know, taking that healthy step back and breathing for a moment and gaining some distance between what you feel like doing and what's actually going to help you feel strong and better and to make a better choice.

As we've talked about before, this is ancient advice.

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