One is to follow God. Number two is to love yourself well. The reason I think that's more important than to simply love your wife well is because she will be loved well if you are taking care of yourself. Your kids are downstream from your health. If you're unhealthy, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, your kids will be unhealthy.

Your wife will be less healthy.

So take care of yourself and show your kids how a man takes care of himself so that he can be in maximum service.

All right, Kip, what's up, man?

Hey, good to have you on.

I wish we would have hit record on some of the

conversations we were having a second ago about the quote unquote divine nature of our children

and then how they actually behave and then we're also talking about if you could get into the heads

of other people how disturbing it would actually be it would be it would be it would be disturbing

that's the best word i can come up with for it.

Yeah, let's, let's, there, there is some value to the masks that we put on, right? Because if we

didn't have some of those perceptions, uh, managing those perceptions, probably be in jail to your

point or, or no one would love us. I actually think, that's funny you said mask because we often hear in modern culture

to remove the mask, to be vulnerable.

Look, I get some of that.

But there's a time and a place to put a mask on.

And I've thought about this in sports.

I was talking with my oldest boys lacrosse coach just yesterday. And we were talking about

the difference between being hurt and being injured. And sometimes you just have to put your

big boy britches on and suffer through a little pain because that's what the situation demands.

And in modern times, I don't think we're told as much

as men to do that. It's like, oh, it's okay if you're having a hard day or if you're down or you're

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