Welcome to Enjoying Everyday Life with New York Times best-selling author Joyce Meyer.

On today's program, Joyce will be teaching from her series enjoying successful relationships.

God wants to bless us, but we must get along.

Because where there is unity, there is blessing and anointing.

So it's our job to learn how to set aside our own agenda and serve one another through love.

Now here's Joyce with today's teaching.

I tell you what, I had a lot of one-sided relationships in my life, people who used me. They took and put

nothing back. And about five years ago I got tired of that and I thought I'm either

going to have real friends or I'm not going to have any.

I'm not going to hang out with takers.

I'm not going to hang out with users.

Now I'll hang out with them long enough to try to help them and be an example to them.

But we have no real relationship if there's no doing. That's why love is not theory and it's not talking it's not

a sermon that everybody can say a man to and they'll go home and do nothing.

Church if we're ever going to get anything, we've got to get this.

Do you understand, we've got to get this?

And not just a, amen, boy, Sister Joy sure preached a good message tonight. No. then,

boy sister, Joy, sure, preached a good message tonight.

No, we got to get this.

You got to go out of here and you got to start saying,

my God, I need help.

Teach me. Read every book you can get your hands on on love. Take every

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