TRIGGERED! When you're having a hard time and someone tells you to just "be positive"
Inner Work: A Spiritual Growth Podcast
Josephine Hardman
4.9 • 619 Ratings
🗓️ 29 May 2021
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
Has anyone ever told you to just "be positive" or "think positive" while you were in the midst of a crisis, having a challenge, or experiencing intense emotions? Did this make you want to rip that person's head off? Yup, I've been there too!
In this episode of TRIGGERED!, I talk about the experience of being told to just "be positive" and how this can make you feel triggered, alone, angry, or dismissed. This may also trigger the feeling that your experience or emotions are being minimized.
I also cover, briefly, the sometimes endemic tendency in the spiritual community towards "toxic positivity" - the idea that everything is, or should, be ok if you just "stay positive" and keep your vibes high.
To connect with me directly, head over to www.josephinehardman.com or https://instagram.com/healer.josephine
I welcome your comments, questions, and stories about your own triggers so we can work through them together in a future episode. You can always reach me at me@josephinehardman.com
Thank you for being here, and please be kind to yourself!
Music & editing by G. Demers
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Inner Work, a spiritual growth podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | I'm your host, Josephine Hartman. |
| 0:08.5 | I'm an intuitive healer and certified Akashik Records reader and teacher, |
| 0:13.5 | driven by the purpose of helping others become more powerful by reconnecting to the healer within. |
| 0:19.7 | To explore my work or connect with me, you can visit josephinehardman.com. |
| 0:24.9 | If you feel called to support the podcast, please leave a rating or review on Apple Podcasts. |
| 0:30.8 | I so appreciate your presence here, and I'm honored to serve as a guide or companion on your path for a little while. Now, on to the episode. |
| 0:43.4 | Has anyone ever told you to just be positive or to think positive thoughts while you're |
| 0:50.0 | experiencing a crisis or having intense feelings or anxiety or even just having a down, difficult, |
| 0:57.3 | or emotional day. If so, did hearing those words, just be positive. Make you want to rip that |
| 1:04.8 | person's head off? Yep, me too. In this episode of Triggered, we're talking about those instances where someone, |
| 1:12.6 | typically a very well-meaning, well-intentioned person, tells you to be positive, and |
| 1:18.6 | you get triggered because you're having genuine feelings about something or experiencing a difficult time, |
| 1:24.6 | and sometimes that advice is just not appropriate or helpful in any way. |
| 1:30.5 | In these cases, when you get triggered, it might feel like anger or heat rising up through your |
| 1:36.4 | chest. That's typically how this type of triggering presents itself in my experience at least. |
| 1:43.1 | It could also make you feel even more emotional and worse than you're already feeling. |
| 1:50.1 | For me, this type of indignant anger, this feeling of not being heard, not being understood, |
| 1:57.3 | tends to result in tears of rage. |
| 2:04.4 | I will get emotional, and then that rises up through my chest and comes out as hot tears of anger if I feel misunderstood or not seen or not really heard. |
| 2:12.5 | I also want to touch on briefly in this episode on the endemic experience that some of us have had in |
| 2:20.9 | the spiritual community or working with healers or teachers, this experience of being told that |
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