Hello, everybody. It is me, Cecily Nobler here with Stephanie Wilder Taylor, the beautiful. Hi. The mostly just beautiful. Hey. I take away your other compliments. She doesn't have to, you know what? Not everyone has to be smart. Someone has to be funny or nice. She's very pretty. God. You know what? The thing. At this age, I will absolutely take that. Thank you. Thank you. You're welcome. Thank you. You're so sweet. Thank you. Okay. Today, I guess we shouldn't be this late. No, not for this. Not for this. Maybe should we do the other thing for, no, I don't have the other story.

Yeah, we're going to start with what we're going to start with.

But that was just an easy win because we're going to get pretty serious and we should definitely say trigger.

Warning, we'll say it on the thing, but we're saying it now in case you missed the description of the show.

Yeah.

Because this is a sure, a definite trigger. And we waited a week or so to talk about it

because it was like too much even for us. And let me say, I want to say one thing, which, you know,

I know is sort of neither here nor there for anybody who doesn't listen to for crying

out loud. But on for crying out loud, Lynette and I did do an entire episode. It was a Patreon

because it was sort of right after this had happened about the story. Not all the, not as many

details were out at the time. And I thought, I just want to say this,

because this is going to be the same for us. I thought that we were very respectful and like made it,

we made it a bigger conversation about parenting a mentally ill child, you know, and, and the

difficulties that it would seem in that. And I, and somebody

got really offended and said that we sounded like two like gossipy, whatever, girls. And I just

want to say this off the bat because that that is not our intention. This is we are not,

our intention is not at all to gossip about this.

It's a very sad story.

And we just want to discuss the horror of it all and sort of.

And sort of piece some things together.

We have, yeah.

And we haven't said what we're talking about yet, which is,

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