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Hi, I'm Caroline Stambury and I am divorced, not dead. I'm a former Bravo TV star and now former wife.

Fresh off the pack of my divorce, I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk on all things that aren't said between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey, so buckle up.

Welcome back to another episode of Divorce, not dead.

And today I am joined by Shantelle Otton.

So anyway, I'm very excited about having you on. I've been looking forward to this podcast.

I've actually done a few on sex therapists and you are a sexologist.

That'sologist. Look, it's just a different type of training that essentially we're all doing the same thing.

We have the same goal for this. I went to a lot of schools, seven years of school for this.

I'm a doctor of sex.

Are you a doctor of sex? I'm not sure. The others were more therapists, but you went to school for good sex.

And what does school look like for that? Is it an exam or is it physical?

Oh, my goodness. Who is a physical? Some people do physicals.

Now, my name is therapy, so psychology and then science and medicine specializing in sexual medicine.

What I have, I have an interview to a couple of people that sort of do sex therapy.

It sort of looks like people come to them when things have already gone bad.

When things are already souring, so you're sort of getting the tail end of a relationship or how to get fall back in love and all that kind of stuff.

Is that is that how it is with you? Would I come to you earlier than that?

I mean, I would bloody hope so, but I think it really depends on where you're at.

I mean, I have a following, which is mainly made up of young people that are between like the 18 to like 35 kind of demographic.

And I have 12 sexologists that work for me. I would say that the most like the main age bracket is between maybe 18 and 45.

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