Trauma, Parents, and Attachment
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2022
⏱️ 52 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob emails, let's do it. |
| 0:02.2 | What do you say? |
| 0:02.9 | Yup, anonymous patron. |
| 0:05.4 | She says, I will preface this by saying |
| 0:08.3 | that I have been diagnosed with borderline personality |
| 0:10.6 | disorder in the past. |
| 0:11.8 | My current therapist and friends don't seem to believe |
| 0:14.1 | I have it, but I definitely have a reactivity |
| 0:16.7 | to perceived distance from other people. |
| 0:19.1 | Recently a friend of mine and I got in a bit of a back and forth. |
| 0:24.3 | I ended up throwing my needs to the side to care for her, |
| 0:28.6 | but now I'm resentful and angry about it. |
| 0:30.8 | How do you healthily care for someone |
| 0:33.7 | when you need them to comfort you? |
| 0:37.2 | So do you see the question from an honest patron? |
| 0:40.2 | I think I see it. |
| 0:41.5 | So I ended up throwing my needs aside to care for her, |
| 0:46.3 | but now I'm resentful and so someone needed me |
| 0:50.0 | and I was helping her, but I had to put my needs on the side. |
| 0:54.5 | And that made me feel like crap. |
| 0:56.4 | And I have relational traumas in the past |
| 0:59.0 | that make me feel particularly wounded when someone is |
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