And what stage would you say most people are in?

Most people go dating honeymoon and then break up in the power struggle.

The power struggle is the stage of relationships where like the mask drops and the whole point of the power struggle stage,

the right of passage is actually to move the needle more from

conditionally based love when the mask is on and you're on your best

behavior in the early stages into more unconditionally based love where you can say

here's my fears in a relationship.

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Welcome back guys. Today I have a very exciting episode you're going to learn about

attachment styles, personalities, trauma, Taius Gibson, how's it going?

Good I'm excited to be here with you. Absolutely. So what you teach is very powerful

I want to know how you got into all of this.

Yeah, thank you. So essentially I went through a really sort of chaotic upbringing, I would say.

Lots of like really extreme arguments fighting really long divorce between my parents like 15 years in divorce

court sort of thing and I think from a young age I was a really sensitive child

and I was like what's going on like there must be another way and I think I was always curious

about relationships and like how you know fighting has to happen so often and

like there must be more solutions to this and And so I grew up, I went through,

I put soccer in university, and then came out

and was sort of like, okay, I want to work with people.

And started in actually the field of like the subconscious mind.

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