This is the labor.

Take me back to the time that you were in the victim mentality as a kid, and where that

came from from your mom, and let's start there for just a minute, because not everybody

understands or identifies, like, as early potentially as you did, that they have the chance

to take ownership versus be a victim.

I'd love to know what you were feeling in that time, and regardless of the narratives

coming from your mom, what were the narratives coming from the other sources in your world

at that time?

Yeah, so it's really important, because there's a lot of things happening in my life.

My dad left when I was five, so I immediately took on a sense of responsibility for my

mom.

So a lot of the victim mentality was because I saw my mom as a victim.

My dad was abusive, emotionally cheated on her, you know, just wasn't a good husband,

and so I took on that, right?

My mom's a victim.

I'm living as a victim.

I don't have a dad, I don't have money, you know, surrounded myself because of my academia

with people who more were set on their dad's or doctors' lawyers, you know, and so they

had a lot of stuff going on that I didn't have, and so I lived in this why me, world,

have not enough, and so I became hyper-competitive and scarce.

Now I will tell you, I come from energetically and genetically, a scarce family lineage,

and probably a past life lineage, like even the wealthy people in my family are extremely

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