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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 505: What Happens When We’re No Longer Here? Financial Planning for Differently Wired Families

Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

Debbie Reber

Education, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2026

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Today we’re talking about something many families know they need to think about—but often don’t know where to begin: financial planning for children with disabilities. My guest is Mary McDirmid, a Chartered Special Needs Consultant and the co-founder and COO of All Needs Planning, a nationwide firm built by caregivers, for caregivers. In our conversation, Mary walks us through why proactive planning matters so much and what it can actually look like in practice. We talk about creating comprehensive care plans, protecting essential benefits, and building a long-term vision that supports not just financial security, but overall well-being. This is an empowering, practical conversation designed to help families feel more prepared, more informed, and more confident about the future. About Dr. Devon Price  Mary McDirmid, ChSNC, is the COO and co-founder of All Needs Planning — a nationwide financial planning firm built by caregivers, for caregivers. A Chartered Special Needs Consultant, Mary brings both professional expertise and lived experience as a parent navigating the special needs journey. She specializes in helping families create comprehensive plans that address the financial, legal, and care needs of loved ones with disabilities — from diagnosis through adulthood and beyond. Mary is co-author of the upcoming book Care, Protect, Grow: A Guide to Building Lasting Security for Your Loved One with Special Needs (Wiley, May 2026), which provides a compassionate, step-by-step roadmap for families facing the question of “what happens when I’m no longer here?” Things you'll learn from this episode   Why early, ongoing planning is essential for families raising children with special needs How the Care, Protect, and Grow framework supports a comprehensive, long-term vision for care How creating and regularly updating care plans ensures continuity and security for loved ones Why involving siblings and considering long-term roles is an important part of the planning process How active advocacy and participation shape more effective, personalized support systems When and how to begin these conversations so families feel prepared rather than overwhelmed Resources mentioned Mary McDirmid’s website Care, Protect, Grow: A Guide to Building Lasting Security for Your Loved One with Special Needs by Mary McDirmid Book a free meeting with Mary Care, Protect, Grow (on Mary’s website) All Needs Planning Learning Lab ABLE National Resource Center Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:06.9

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0:13.6

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0:24.4

I'm Debbie Reber, and you're listening to Full Tilled Parenting.

0:28.7

Today we're talking about something many families kind of know they need to think about,

0:30.5

but they often don't know where to begin.

0:35.5

And so they might be pushing it off to the side instead of taking the next steps.

0:39.5

I'm talking about financial planning for children with disabilities.

0:46.1

My guest is Mary McDermid, a chartered special needs consultant and the co-founder and COO of all needs planning, a nationwide firm built by caregivers for caregivers.

0:51.7

As both the professional and a parent navigating the journey herself, Mary brings

0:55.6

a real-world perspective to the conversation. She's also the co-author of the new book Care,

1:01.9

Protect, Grow, a guide to building lasting security for your loved one with special needs.

1:07.7

So today, Mary will walk us through why proactive planning matters so much

1:12.9

and what it can actually look like in practice. We'll talk about creating comprehensive

1:16.8

care plans, protecting essential benefits, and building a long-term vision that supports

1:22.5

not just financial security, but overall well-being. As I said in this conversation you're about to listen to, I'm

1:29.0

just so grateful that people like Mary are out there who translate what for many of us can feel

1:34.2

completely overwhelming and confusing and daunting. So I really hope this episode helps you feel

1:39.1

more prepared, more informed, and more confident about the future. So here's Mary McDermid.

1:46.1

Hey, Mary, welcome to the podcast. Thank you so much for having me.

1:50.9

Thank you for joining me to have yet another fresh conversation. I get very excited when after

1:57.4

this many episodes, I bring a new topic to the show. But I heard about your new book, which is called Care, Protect, Grow, Empower Your

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