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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 476: Rebecca Duffus & Lyric Rivera on Supporting Kids Autistic Identity Development

Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

Debbie Reber

Education, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2025

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Today’s conversation is all about understanding and supporting autistic identity—how it develops, why it matters, and the ways parents and educators can help nurture it. I’m joined by Rebecca Duffus and Lyric Rivera, two incredible advocates doing powerful work in this space, and the authors of the new Autism, Identity & Me workbook for kids, and the accompanying professional and parent guide of the same name. In our conversation, we talk about the importance of identity development for autistic young people, the current state of neurodivergent education, and how parents and caregivers can foster a positive, affirming understanding of neurodiversity. We also dig into the “superpower” narrative—when it helps, when it doesn’t—and how to use Rebecca and Lyric’s Autism, Identity & Me workbook as a practical tool for ongoing conversations about identity, acceptance, and self-understanding. About Rebecca Duffus Rebecca Duffus BSc, PGCE, MA is an experienced Advisory Teacher with a Psychology Degree and a Masters in Autism and Education. She has many years of experience working with students and educators in both mainstream and specialist education settings as well as within local councils, charities and education services. Rebecca has been a speaker at conferences across the UK, developed a range of parent programmes, and provides training and coaching for settings.Rebeca is the author of the Autism, Identity & Me Workbook and Guidebook set published by Routledge. About Lyric Rivera Lyric Rivera, an autistic self-advocate from Texas, is a prominent figure in the field of neurodiversity and autism advocacy. Over the years, Lyric has educated millions about autism and neuro-inclusion through their blog, NeuroDivergent Rebel, their consulting organization, NeuroDivergent Consulting, and their best-selling business ethics book, Workplace Neurodiversity Rising. Things you'll learn from this episode Why understanding and affirming identity is central to empowering autistic children and teens How Lyric’s late discovery of autism underscores the need for better resources and support for adults How education systems differ widely in their ability to support neurodivergent learners Why parents should approach conversations about neurodiversity with openness and sensitivity How the “superpower” narrative can unintentionally dehumanize autistic individuals Why accessible, adaptable resources and ongoing conversations are key to healthy identity development Resources mentioned Autism, Identity and Me: A Practical Workbook and Professional Guide to Empower Autistic Children and Young People Aged 10+ by Rebecca Dufus and Lyric Rivera Rebecca Duffus’ website Lyric Rivera’s website Neurodivergent Rebel Rebecca on Instagram Neurodivergent Rebel on Instagram Rebecca on Facebook Neurodivergent Rebel on Facebook Neurodivergent Rebel Substack   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm Debbie Reber and you're listening to Full Tilt Parenting.

0:05.4

And today's conversation is all about understanding and supporting autistic identity in our kids,

0:10.6

how it develops, why it matters, and the ways parents and educators can help nurture it.

0:15.4

I'm joined by Rebecca Duffis and Lerick Rivera, two incredible advocates doing powerful work in this space. Rebecca is an

0:22.6

advisory teacher with a background in psychology and a master's in autism and education who spent

0:28.0

years supporting students and educators across mainstream and specialist settings in the UK.

0:33.5

And she's the author of the Autism Identity and Me Workbook and Guidebook Set.

0:38.1

Lyric, who many of you may know as the voice behind a neurodivergent rebel,

0:42.3

is an autistic self-advocate and consultant whose work has reached millions through their writing,

0:47.3

speaking, and their book, Workplace, Neurodiversity Rising.

0:50.9

Lyric joined Rebecca in writing the workbook.

0:53.1

We'll be diving into today. So in this

0:55.3

conversation, we talk about the importance of identity development for autistic young people,

0:59.9

the current state of education when it comes to neurodivergent kids, and how parents and caregivers

1:04.6

can foster a positive affirming understanding of neurodiversity. We also dig into the

1:09.9

superpower narrative, when it helps,

1:12.2

when it doesn't, and how to use Rebecca and Lyric's Autism, Identity, Me workbook as a practical

1:17.5

tool for ongoing conversations about identity, acceptance, and self-understanding.

1:22.8

We went down a few rabbit holes that were fun to get into. It was a very interesting conversation.

1:27.4

I hope you

1:27.8

feel the same. So here's my conversation with Rebecca and Lyric. Hey, Rebecca and Lyric. Welcome to the

1:34.9

podcast. Hey, nice to have us here. Thank you so much for inviting us. Yes, I am looking forward to

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