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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 012: A Conversation with 11-year-old Asher About Managing & Tracking Screen Time

Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

Debbie Reber

Education, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 14 June 2016

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

In this special kid’s POV edition, Asher and I talk about screen time. Like many families with children (differently-wired or not), the issue of screen time — how much, what kind, and when — is something we are constantly grappling with. And because like many other differently-wired kids, Asher is really into the games and projects he’s got going on in his virtual world, we’ve struggled to come up with an approach that feels good for Derin and me as parents while also helping Asher learn how to be more responsible for his time and behavior online (and after he shuts down). In this episode, Asher and I detail our current approach for tracking screen time, which we co-designed in such a way that it will help him learn to track his own time, set intentions for how he will spend his time, and stay emotionally regulated both while online and when it’s time to get off (that's the goal, anyway).  Debbie Reber is the founder of Tilt and the host of the Tilt Parenting Podcast. 11-year-old Asher is Debbie’s child and is regularly featured on the podcast. Find out more about Debbie and Asher by visiting the About Page.   THINGS YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE: The strategy we’re using to help Asher learn to be more responsible for his screen time, as well as support more peaceful transitions from screen to the real world Why time warnings might actually create anxiety rather than smooth transitions How frequent brain breaks can support healthy screen time habits   RESOURCES MENTIONED: Download a PDF of Asher’s New and Improved Screen Time Planning Worksheet The Productivity Planner from Intelligent Design The Pomodoro Technique Time Tracker Visual Timer and Clock from Fun and Function Support the show Connect with Tilt Parenting Visit Tilt Parenting Take the free 7-Day Challenge Read a chapter of Differently Wired Follow Tilt on Twitter & Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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So you are someone who likes to have the when the alarm goes off, it hits you as a surprise, but that's better than looking at it and seeing oh crap I only have four minutes left

1:04.4

because then that makes me ridiculously stressed okay all right that's good to know

1:06.9

ridiculously stress is not really the best of feelings

1:11.4

welcome to the tilt Podcast, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at

1:16.7

inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids.

1:21.2

I'm your host Debbie Reaver, and today's episode features another short conversation

1:25.7

with my 11 year old son Asher. Today we're devoting our whole conversation to a

1:30.3

subject near and dear to pretty much every family's life these days.

1:34.7

Screen time.

1:35.7

Like most of you listening, we have been trying to figure out how to best balance,

1:39.4

manage, and negotiate Ashra's engagement with all things screened so that it doesn't negatively

1:44.6

impact our family and so that it doesn't take over his life.

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