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Sex With Emily

Toxic Relationships & Drama Addicts w/ Dr. Scott Lyons

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2023

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

([TW // mentions su*c*de] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through 47:00-48:00.) Do you (or your partner) start fights over nothing? Do stable relationships feel unsettling? Today, holistic psychologist, podcast host, and author Dr. Scott Lyons shows us how some of us may be more addicted to drama than we think. From attachment styles to toxic partners, Dr. Lyons explains how unresolved trauma can show up in ourselves and our relationships. We also talk about the desire to have rough sex, why makeup sex feels so good, how trauma lives in our bodies, and so much more. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to work through jealousy in relationships How addiction to drama affects our sexual pleasure How to identify and sit with uncomfortable emotions See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Handle Performance Anxiety 5 Ways to Pleasure a Vulva Magic Wand Micro SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

So sometimes we do big, rough sex because it's more sensational, right?

0:09.8

And so we might mistake that sensationalism for actually deep pleasure.

0:15.3

And that's what gets confused in addiction and drama is where these heightened, excitable

0:19.6

sensations is not true intimacy, it's not at all.

0:26.4

You're listening to Sex with Emily, I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize

0:31.1

your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

0:35.0

Today, Dr. Scott Lyons joined us as our first ever guest in our brand new studio, talking

0:41.6

about all the ways people can be addicted to drama.

0:44.9

And if you're like me, you may think, I don't like drama, I don't do drama, but Dr. Lyons

0:50.0

shows us how some of us may be more attracted to chaos than we think.

0:54.1

We also talk about vanilla versus kinky sex, how to overcome jealousy, when a partner

0:58.9

comments on other people, how trauma lives in our bodies and just so much more.

1:04.4

Please, please, please rate and review Sex with Emily wherever you listen to this show,

1:08.1

it really helps us make more quality shows and have this show reach more people.

1:12.2

So everyone's having better sex, my new articles, how to handle performance anxiety and five

1:17.0

ways to pleasure a vulva are up on sexwithemily.com.

1:20.6

Are there one enjoyed this episode?

1:25.3

Dr. Scott Lyons, welcome to the show.

1:36.1

Dr. Emily, I'm so happy to be on the show.

1:38.4

We've been trying to do this for a while, very excited to talk to you all.

1:41.6

Can I tell you how fun my week was?

1:43.2

Yeah.

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