My entitled mom thinks that I'm staying with my boyfriend, all because I'm taking what I can get, claiming that my boyfriend will not provide a future for me and that I am wasting my time. And despite the fact that I've tried multiple times to have a conversation with my mom, she still refuses to listen, leaving me at my breaking point, as right now I really don't know what to do. Here's what happened. I'm a 19 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for the past four years. I never felt comfortable

coming to my parents and telling them that we were dating because when I first brought it up to

my mother at 16, she said she was not comfortable with her 16 year old daughter dating. She also

thought I was dating him because other people were dating at the time,

and she saw it as me jumping on a trend, which are her exact words. Then, prom came around a year or so later, and my mom got to meet him in person. We didn't plan to coordinate outfits,

and we just went dressed as we like. We enjoyed ourselves, and we had a great time. My boyfriend

even talked to my mom and said that she was really

nice to him and he felt hopeful that he might actually have a chance with my mom coming around to him.

Well, instead, after she went home, she criticized his appearance and talked trash on him instead of

saying something nice about him. Even my aunt had to tell her that it wasn't that serious,

and she was being way too harsh. I found this

out from my younger siblings after the fact, and my boyfriend and I were crushed. Fast forward a few

months ago, where I finally worked up the courage to tell them that I am dating him. Now, my father

didn't say much. He just asked the basics about what he does and what he looks like, whereas my

mom didn't really ask much about him,

but emphasized that I need to focus on my degree in college and not to focus too much on men

and get distracted. Now, the entire summer, they did not ask a thing about him and I, and my mom

always asked how my friends were doing ever since I was young, so I thought he was just going

to be an addition to her questions. Instead,

she asked about my friends, even one that she never met, but nothing about my boyfriend. By this point,

my boyfriend and I are planning on living together after college, talking about marriage, kids,

how we would handle the bills, etc. So to see that they don't care about someone who is so deeply

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